Princess Diana and Prince Charles got off to an interesting start

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Let’s begin with how these two met in the first place. According to The Evening Standard, Prince Charles actually dated Sarah Spencer (Diana’s sister!) before wooing the Princess and it was she that introduced the two. Sarah realized she wasn’t in love with Charles and broke things off in 1977, but by then the Prince, 28, had already taken notice of Diana, 16. He reportedly found her, “very jolly and amusing and attractive,” calling her “great fun, bouncy, and full of life.”

Diana evidently found Charles just as amusing because they began dating in 1980 and after just 12 dates (according to Prince Charles: The Passions and Paradoxes of an Improbable Life), the two announced their engagement. It wasn’t exactly the whirlwind romance you might be imagining, though. In a 1981 interview, a reporter asked Charles and Diana if they were in love, to which Diana replied, “Of course.” Charles, on the other hand, followed up with a non-committal, “Whatever ‘in love’ means,” (via YouTube). Ummm, ok?

Friends thought Prince Charles and Princess Diana were not a match

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The inconsistencies between Diana and Charles’ responses to that reporter may have just been par for the course in their relationship. According to the book The Duchess: The Untold Story written by Penny Junor, friends saw several disparities between Lady Diana and Prince Charles (via The Daily Mail). Some felt the two had nothing in common and were concerned about the “intellectual gap” between them while others thought Diana was purely interested in the royal title. According to the book, Charles ignored his friends’ judgements but he himself eventually began to view Diana as “badly educated, naïve, and — by her own admission — immature”. Not exactly an assessment you want from your future husband.

It seems there was an issue of commitment, too. At least on Charles’ part, anyway. According to the biography Diana: Her True Story, shortly before their wedding, Diana discovered a gold bracelet engraved with the initials “F” and “G” that Charles intended to give to Camilla Parker-Bowles, whom The Evening Standard says he dated back in 1971. The letters allegedly stood for Charles and Camilla’s pet names for each other, “Fred” and “Gladys.” Diana confronted Prince Charles, but he gave Camilla the bracelet anyway, just two days before marrying Diana. With a courtship full of this many red flags, it’s a wonder Diana and Charles still got married. But, of course they did, only to get divorced 15 years later, sadly after Charles confessed to having an affair with Camilla (via Insider).

The Truth About Princess Diana And Prince Charles’ Dating History

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By Megan Scott/Dec. 2, 2020 11:48 am EST

Princess Diana and Prince Charles got off to an interesting start

Hulton Archives / Getty Images

Let’s begin with how these two met in the first place. According to The Evening Standard, Prince Charles actually dated Sarah Spencer (Diana’s sister!) before wooing the Princess and it was she that introduced the two. Sarah realized she wasn’t in love with Charles and broke things off in 1977, but by then the Prince, 28, had already taken notice of Diana, 16. He reportedly found her, “very jolly and amusing and attractive,” calling her “great fun, bouncy, and full of life.”

Diana evidently found Charles just as amusing because they began dating in 1980 and after just 12 dates (according to Prince Charles: The Passions and Paradoxes of an Improbable Life), the two announced their engagement. It wasn’t exactly the whirlwind romance you might be imagining, though. In a 1981 interview, a reporter asked Charles and Diana if they were in love, to which Diana replied, “Of course.” Charles, on the other hand, followed up with a non-committal, “Whatever ‘in love’ means,” (via YouTube). Ummm, ok?

Diana evidently found Charles just as amusing because they began dating in 1980 and after just 12 dates (according to Prince Charles: The Passions and Paradoxes of an Improbable Life), the two announced their engagement. It wasn’t exactly the whirlwind romance you might be imagining, though. In a 1981 interview, a reporter asked Charles and Diana if they were in love, to which Diana replied, “Of course.” Charles, on the other hand, followed up with a non-committal, “Whatever ‘in love’ means,” (via YouTube). Ummm, ok?

Friends thought Prince Charles and Princess Diana were not a match

Anwar Hussein/Getty Images

The inconsistencies between Diana and Charles’ responses to that reporter may have just been par for the course in their relationship. According to the book The Duchess: The Untold Story written by Penny Junor, friends saw several disparities between Lady Diana and Prince Charles (via The Daily Mail). Some felt the two had nothing in common and were concerned about the “intellectual gap” between them while others thought Diana was purely interested in the royal title. According to the book, Charles ignored his friends’ judgements but he himself eventually began to view Diana as “badly educated, naïve, and — by her own admission — immature”. Not exactly an assessment you want from your future husband.

It seems there was an issue of commitment, too. At least on Charles’ part, anyway. According to the biography Diana: Her True Story, shortly before their wedding, Diana discovered a gold bracelet engraved with the initials “F” and “G” that Charles intended to give to Camilla Parker-Bowles, whom The Evening Standard says he dated back in 1971. The letters allegedly stood for Charles and Camilla’s pet names for each other, “Fred” and “Gladys.” Diana confronted Prince Charles, but he gave Camilla the bracelet anyway, just two days before marrying Diana. With a courtship full of this many red flags, it’s a wonder Diana and Charles still got married. But, of course they did, only to get divorced 15 years later, sadly after Charles confessed to having an affair with Camilla (via Insider).

It seems there was an issue of commitment, too. At least on Charles’ part, anyway. According to the biography Diana: Her True Story, shortly before their wedding, Diana discovered a gold bracelet engraved with the initials “F” and “G” that Charles intended to give to Camilla Parker-Bowles, whom The Evening Standard says he dated back in 1971. The letters allegedly stood for Charles and Camilla’s pet names for each other, “Fred” and “Gladys.” Diana confronted Prince Charles, but he gave Camilla the bracelet anyway, just two days before marrying Diana. With a courtship full of this many red flags, it’s a wonder Diana and Charles still got married. But, of course they did, only to get divorced 15 years later, sadly after Charles confessed to having an affair with Camilla (via Insider).